DR says no Sex what can we do???
My dr said no sex till after the baby because of a blood clot and all the bleeding that I have had. SO the b/f and I havent had any type of any thing in almost 3 months and the babys not due till May. I cant do the oral because the taste makes me sick so whats left to do?
Looks like it is time to Hand Jive baby! Grab the lotion and get creative, don't just jerk him off. Try all different manuvers to keep him interested. I think there was a book out there on how to give a good hand job but I don't remember what it was called. Apparently there are techniques that us women aren't totally aware of. It is great for him that you care enough to keep him satisfied. Good luck!
Re: DR says no Sex what can we do???
Do you have a digital camera? If you do, take nude pics of each other - I guarantee it will turn him beyond anything you could imagine. (Plus you get some cool nude pics of yourself pregnant that nobody but you ever has to see.) Then, if he's bored and you're not feeling up to it, he can help himself to the computer....
Massage is always nice....
Can you orgasm? Or are you supposed to avoid that, too? If not, let him rub on you some, too. DH gets as turned on by rubbing on me as he does when I rub on him.
You might try letting him put it between your breasts, if that doesn't gross you out.
Can you tell we got put on pelvic rest and tried almost anything to compensate?
Re: DR says no Sex what can we do???
First, make sure he's relly clean. Like JUST showered. Then use some of those lovely lotions and potions to get you interested in him. Tell him how sexy he is, how much you love him. You don't have to .... swallow .... (TMI SORRY)
just make sure he warns you, and if he doesn't you simply won't try again. Have a hand signal he can give, or a word, and go for it!! You don't have to do it the whole time, either. Start, middle, or almost end, with Hershey's syrup will thrill him no end. You never know what you will get in return, but you will get a grateful partner, that loves that you are so considerate as to try this for him.
This is not peer pressure, I just thought it may help. Almost every man adores this!!
DR says no Sex, what can we do???
What techniques for hand jobs have worked for others? What are these techniques that women aren't aware of??? Please help! Due in 10 weeks but no sex allowed. How can I keep him interested/excited??? I don't want him to resort to porn--this has been a problem before.
Re: DR says no Sex what can we do???
hmmm...you could give him a hand job..let him titty f*** you...he can always finger you and eat you out right??
Or..you could try something like..touching yourself in front of him, then having him help and tell him to do the same..that could really be good if you're up for it.