I wouldn't get to worked up about it though. Does your computer give you pop up adertising messages? My computer gives me those dumb pop up messages all of the time. It could have been a pop up message about porn sites. Those do show up in history you know.


I totally understand how you feel about DH's looking at porn.. It seems to me that you are angry not because he looked at these pictures on the internet but, because he did it behind your back. I am with you....I don't mind if my dh looks as porn every blue moon as long as he is open and honest with me (looking at it with me or me in the room). At the same time I want to be looked at by him as the most beautiful women in the world. I struggle with feeling like that too. My husband tells me I am gorgeous Alot but, when you've been with someone for 6 years (married 3 years) it's hard to tell if he truley still thinks I am the most beautiful (25 pounds heavier with short hair). I am not that tan long blond hair babe he dated in college.

Communication is the key.... you do need to express your feelings. You don't want to keep these inside. If I were you, I wouldn't come right out and say... I caught you, your busted, why were you looking at girls on the internet. In fact I would play dumb and when you are on the computer one night ask him to join you for a second and tell him you think something is going on with the computer, that when you were cleaning up the history files their were porn site on there. Give him the opportunity to tell you. Then if he says he did it then express how that make you feel. Tell him it doesn't make you feel beautiful when he does things like that. If he says he didn't look at it then still talk about your feelings. Say good, I didn't think you would beacuse if you did, it would make me feel.....................(explain what you feel now).