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Sugar Mtn Honeybee
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(7/30/05 4:31 pm)
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Ramblings of a probably insane (or soon to be) woman.. LOL
or "Packin Up the Old Homestead"
We've been here at this house for over 7 years. The old farmhouse was huge, and we didn't have enough furniture to fill it up when we first moved in. Well, that didn't last long. We became devout auction attenders, yard sales, garage sales, flea markets... Somewhere along the line, it seems to have filled up to overflowing.
Here I am, trying to figure out a possible way to fit a 2-story farmhouse with full attic, full basement, huge screen porch, double garage (that a car has NEVER fit in), plus 2 carports (also with very little vehicle time in them) into a 12x60, 3-bedroom mobile home and a 24x24 shop building. LOL Ok, the answer is NO WAY IN HE!!
So, I have spent WEEKS throwing things away. I cannot even believe the things I have found in the attic & bedroom closets. We have mostly adult children. All of them have kids of their own except the munchkin (who is the LAST one, I swear, and is only 6 yrs old). However, at least 5 of our adult kids spent time living here, as teenagers or young adults. When they finished with something, did they throw it away?? No, they did not. They carted it up to the attic. They buried it in the bottoms and tops of closets. They turned my upstairs hallway closet into the *evil closet from hell full of toxic teenage waste* (shuddering). - On the good side, though, I did find ALMOST every item of clothing or footwear that my daughters ever borrowed from me and didn't return. LOL
I have the attic done. I finally defeated the evil upstairs closet and began work on our bedroom today. It's almost done now, and I hope to have it completely finished before I go to bed tonight. After carting 11 full-size black garbage bags of clothing, shoes, etc., to throw away out of the dressers, closet, boxes, baskets, bags, & even under the bed, it finally dawned on my where my children got this habit at. **Sighs...** Do you think they have a "Packrat's Anonymous" somewhere? If not, maybe I should start one.
Hmmmmm.. Any advice? I don't want to get rid of ANY of my prep stuff, food & other storage, canning equipment, kitchen gadgets... old-time stuff.. *heavy sigh* On the bright side, he has assured me it is NOT forever. As soon as all the other work on the place is done (which means probably next year sometime), he is going to start building a house. You know, I didn't ask for anything special in any part of that new house except for the kitchen!
I kicked & screamed & fought it the whole way when we first started discussing selling the old homestead out. Yet, when the developer man started buying up hundreds of acres in this area, I had to think again - especially when he offered us what seemed a ridiculous amount of $$ he offered (almost 3 times what we paid for it). Yet, until then, I didn't realize that ALL the land values in this particular area have tripled in the last 7 years. It's remote, it's fairly exclusive as property for sale is hard to find here, and it's got gorgeous views, close to both lakes, off the tourist path but close to jobs & tourist attractions.
There are SO many advantages to this move. First & foremost (in my mind) is the fact that we paid off the mortgages here, bought the place there free & clear, and still have enough left to do all the work needed and for DH to build a house. Getting debt-free except for utilities, food, taxes, etc., was the main priority. My doctor made me retire over a year ago, so we don't have that big paycheck coming in any more. We worried for that whole time about scraping up mortgage payments.. but managed to do it. Foreclosure was like a ghost hanging over our heads. Now, that stress & worry is gone. Once the moving stress is over, all will be well...
Also, we will have air conditioning for the first time in YEARS, which doc says will help me & MIL both, health-wise. We will also be all on one floor, no stairs for laundry, no stairs for bedrooms, which I think will also help with physical pain & fatigue because the stairs are very difficult for me. The land is more level, gently rolling rather than straight up-n-down.. LOL So, we are both hoping to start a walking program on level ground for exercise.
We still have our huge male Pyrenees. We lost our female a week ago. She was due to have puppies last Wednesday. Another neighbor of ours lost their male Pyrenees (a pup from our pair) right around the same time. We are wondering if they weren't poisoned? Our male, Bo, was sick for several days too - but he always let the female, Cappy, eat first while he kept the goats away from the food. After she was finished, he would take his turn. He didn't eat for 2-3 days, but drank TONS of water. Now, he seems to be feeling a lot better.
At first, we thought the heat wave with record high temps may have done it. Still could be possible, I guess.. but we've had some strange things happening lately around here too. I'll be very glad to get moved. We'll get another female after we move, but I sure miss Cappy - and so does Bo.
Someone else suggested creative storage. Hmmmm.. Well, there IS a 24x24 shop there, with attic storage space. We may also have to get one of those little 8x10 mini-barn lookin storage sheds & set it right behind the mobile home, like right outside the back door.. LOL If he doesn't want to buy me one of those, I guess he can build me one. or a storage room addition off the back. or something.. If he wants half of the shop for HIS man-type stuff, he'll just have to make sure we have room somewhere for our prep stuff, right?
As far as being debt-free, we started out with a 10-year goal for that 7 years ago. When we took the 2nd mortgage, that extended that a year.. So, we're still 3-4 years ahead of our goal either way. Sure makes me less stressed about bills & such while waiting for SSDI & my disability insurance to pay. That's a whole 'nother story though & not a pretty one.
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Sugar Mtn Honeybee
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(8/22/05 7:32 pm)
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Re: Ramblings of a probably insane (or soon to be) woman..
I had a very weird dream last night. In the dream, everybody was here fussing, wanting to know when this, why this, where, how, who... when, when, when.. I don't know. They were all bickering back & forth.. In the midst of all this bickering (in the dream), I had a stroke & fell down on the floor. Nobody noticed. They kept walking over me, and continued to argue. My MIL did notice, and she tried to tell them all. She sat at the table, pointing to me lying on the floor, and trying to tell them there was something wrong with me - but they wouldn't listen to her either.
Anyway, she must have finally called an ambulance, because next thing in the dream, they were taking me out the door on a stretcher. I told her not to let them take me to LRH (the local hospital). She followed the ambulance guys out the door, trying to tell them they better not take me there. She said, "Don't you take her to Lake Regional, they'll kill her. You take her to a real hospital!" They slid me into the ambulance, and the one guy turned around, looked at her, and said, "Oh, we don't care about that.. We'll just take her where we want to." My MIL said, "I'll beat your a$$, you sumbich." He laughed & said, "You'll have to catch me first, Gramma!"
They got in the ambulance & took off. She told my cousin, "I'm gonna catch that sapsucker and beat his a$$". She took off in her car.. Then I was in the ambulance, and this guy was jumpin up & down in the back, lookin out the back window, telling the driver, "Hurry, drive faster, she's catchin up, she's catchin up!!"
I remember thinking, I won't even make it to the hospital for them to kill me, these idiot ambulance guys are gonna end up killing me before I ever get there and I'll NEVER get to move to the new place!!
Of course, part of this dream is probably due to the fact that one of our sons called yesterday. His almost-wife had a seizure, and they took her to this same hospital. They found a "cyst" on her brain & a fever of 104F. They don't have a neurosurgeon on staff. They kept her, put her on antibiotics, and placed her in a bed in the regular ward.
I tried to talk her father into having her transferred, because they are SO stupid there at this little hospital. They have no clue what's wrong with her or how to fix it - running a fever of 104 - so they don't even know if she's contagious. Instead of transferring her to someplace that can figure it out quickly, they keep her so they can guess.
Here it is, over 3 weeks later since my first post about packin up the old homestead - and We are still packing, but much closer to finished now. Kitchen is done. The cabinets are mostly empty. Dishes are all packed up, cept paper plates & some old silverware. The cast iron is not packed, but I'll carry it in the Blazer with me, so it doesn't get dropped or anything. At least we still have that to cook with. Most of the food is packed up, canned goods, box goods, etc.
Most of the pantry is done. 2 of the 3 closets are completely empty. The third closet is started, but not completely finished. Plus the butter churns & some other breakables. Most of the dining room is done. I finished packing up the stuff in the buffet and the bottom of the china cabinet today. Threw 2 more garbage bags full of stuff out. I did find a bunch of photos from the very first Christmas we spent here in the drawers of the buffet. I made the mistake of sitting down to look at them too & lost some momentum there.
It's getting there. Still have to pack or throw away the confiscated toys on top of the china cabinet in the dining room, finish up the pantry, then pack up my puppy room stuff. After that, there are a few things left in the basement, but not much. Then I need to go through & pack up all the lamps that will fit in boxes & hopefully not get broken. And then I'll have to pack the puter.
On the good side, though, we have a nice new puter at the new place. We went & bought it on my birthday & set it up down there, so DH & I could keep in touch by puter while he is there building fences & I am here packing.
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shadeaux63
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(8/30/05 8:09 am)
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Re: Ramblings of a probably insane (or soon to be) woman..
Wow,Bee.All craziness aside,it sounds like you're coming along nicely with the move.Before you know it, you'll have the new house built,and things will be back to normal(as if life is ever truly *normal*,right?)
As for the insanity, I'm convinced that sanity is WAY over-rated.
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Sugar Mtn Honeybee
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(9/2/05 11:29 pm)
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Re: Ramblings of a probably insane (or soon to be) woman..
Well, after 2 full U-Hauls (the big ones, 26-footers with the Mom's attic things) of stuff, plus numerous loads with both pickup trucks, the Blazer, a friend's car trailer, and our utility trailer, I think we are finally all here. We've had 6 mobile homes toted in, plus a 7th one due to come in next weekend.
Still waiting on the electric company to put 9 electric poles up so the rest can have electricity also.. plus the phone company to run new wire & a new junction box thing .. plus the well-drillers to come & drill 2 new wells. However, our fences are built, our livestock & birds are all home, our doggies are all in their nice new kennel areas, our mobile home is a shamble of boxes & I don't even like to LOOK in the shop building at the moment..
Drone will have to go back in a week or so & take down the rest of the fencing & do a bit more cleanup.. (old appliances, etc. - not in OUR yard, but in all the kids yards ) and then we'll be finished. This has been the weirdest move of my life. Once the new house is built, we can move things a little small bit at a time & put them away as we get them over there.
We also have a storm shelter, shelter house, & park yet to build. Our pond is coming along nicely, and is about half done. The dozer has cleared off about half of our orchard space also. We will have to go to the nursery & buy new orchard trees, etc. - but the place is coming together slowly but surely.
I agree, Shadeaux, sanity is highly over-rated. I believe that "normal" is a fiction perpetrated by television..
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