afraid to have sex....
Okay, dh and I were cut off about 2 months ago while we were going through IVF. So they said after they see a heartbeat we will have the green light. Well, last week we saw the h/b and the doc said it was okay, BUT...I feel very queasy at night and I'm afraid that :dtd will cause a m/c. I feel so bad for dh but I am just NOT into it. He is really losing his patience with me and I can't blame him. Anyone else scared to :dtd early on?
I wasn't really that scared in the begging..I was just scared that "A" would hurt the baby by laying on my stomach, but nothing other than that. In your situation, you need to remember, your dr wouldn't have said you could dtd, if he didn't think it was safe. I'd just say, relax, take things slow, and try it..maybe you'll feel more comfortable later on..
Re: afraid to have sex....
Kimmy ,
sex is safe as long as doctors don't say otherwise .
but if you do feel unsecure or uncomfortable with the idea of having sex , then don't . you have to feel good and comfortable to do it , otherwise you will apprehend even more later on and you are not going to enjoy it the way you should . take your time , and if that makes you feel better , you can talk to your DH and explain to him your fears .
maybe meanwhile you can find a compromise , such as blow/handjob .
I never had problems in this department , DH and I have been like crazy without worrying , but I understand it can be hard on you .
good luck
afraid to have sex....
like crazy without worrying , but I understand it can be hard on you .
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