It very likely is the stress you're under,causing most of what you experienced in the dream.
I would normally say that houses in dreams are symbolic of or own selves,and dreaming of our children is representative of a part of ourself,as well.But,in this case,the fact that the house was an old house,that you once actually lived in,and hated,your daughter was mising,and of course,the silent screaming,are kind of give-aways,that this is a stress dream.I will almost lay money you awoke from this dream feeling as if you had a weight on your chest,like someone was sitting there,and you couldn't draw breath,as well.That's also from stress.
For what it's worth,I do know how you feel,my family is going through some pretty nasty financial crap right now,too.It aint easy to rob Peter to pay Paul,when Peter has no money either.The best advice I can offer is to find a way to release as much of the stress as you can,whether it's drawing,or going into the woods and screaming it out.Whatever works,even a little,for you.Letting it build is only a recipe for disaster.Hang in there,and know you are NOT alone.