embarrassing sex question
err...i don't even really know how to ask this without getting too specific...and I feel stupid...but, my stomach growing as it is, my husband on top is no longer comfortable, so we're experimenting...the thing is, doggy style which many people have suggests, seems hard on my knees...plus, it, well, doesn't seem to stay in like it should! are we freaks for not being able to figure this out???
Hi!
Did you try the spoon position ?
the man is behind the woman , but goes in the front door like doggy style , except that the woman (and the man if he wants) lays on her side . wish my DH could explain that one , I am never good with descriptions .
hope that helps
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I could never get spoons to work. My butt is too big, and if my tummy is getting in the way with him on top, it's going to laying on my side, too.
Here's a couple we really like: What I call the "T" position - he lays on his side, and you lay on your back perpendicular to him with your legs thrown over his side. It's an easy access, low strain position that also allows for clit stimulation. I love it!
Also, if you don't have bad knees, there's always doggie style. If you've never tried it, you need to - it feels wonderful!
If you really like the missionary position, you can modify it a little by propping pillows underneath your rear and having him on his knees. He can lean over you without squishing anything. I know it's not quite the same thing, but it's pretty close.
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We do something very similar to the "T" position. Imagine your guy laying on the left side of the bed, laying on his right side. You lay on your back and put your left leg over his torso and your right leg between his legs. It's very low-effort sex with deep penetration and easy opportunity for additional clit stimulation with your hands, his hands, or vibrating toys. Or today I laid down on the bed from just my hips up with my legs hanging off and he was kneeling/standing (not sure, I was having too much fun to take detailed notes) at the edge of the bed. No problem with tummy getting in the way there either.
What about on top?
My husband and I have always been in to experimenting so we haven't been affected by my belly hardly at all. We've had to eliminate one or two of our favorites and alter some things a little but really, there are lots of ways out there! the ones so far described are some of our favs...especially the T one with both of us lying on back or sides with me as the long part of the T. If you have a hard time spooning because of your bootay, a new problem for us, try spooning in this position(T). I haven't heard anyone mention his favorite though. He loves it when I get on top and sit up. You can slide your hips in circles, back and forth, however you want to stimulate all kinds of tickly areas inside and out. The more oil you use the better this feels. Or put your feet flat next to him and stand yourself up and down, if that's too much work stand up and let him move his hips as fast or slow as he wants. For a kind of neat twist turn around backwards. For me this actually feels better since I got pregnant, although he has to get me "warmed up" before I can sit up or it's uncomfortable for a minute or two. Hope I didnt get too graphic and good luck! There's lots of fun to be had!
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I really had no answer prior to my last son being born, I went to a "HEN TOY PARTY" with some girlfriends when this exact subject came up. When sex toys and pregnanacy was discussed, the party host showed a Cyberskin extension. Three of the ladies said this made most positions comfortable during pregnanacy without the strain. I talked DH into wearing it since we were not TTC and we both loved it. Any position we wanted even if my pregnant behind, or his tummy got in the way was still available, and I could control the penetration depth (TMI).
Re: embarrassing sex question
Well..spooning sounds like an idea, but if that doesn't work why don't you try sitting on top of his lap, not facing him w/ him laying down or you could even face him..
Re: embarrassing sex question
HI
i agree spooning is good but personally doesnt do much for me.
i found during my last pg that its good supporting yourself lying on the edge of the bed and have your hubby enter whilst kneeling on the floor (depends on how high your bed is i know) this was good because you still get the intimacy of facing each other. women on top is also good. personally i think getting the big beautiful belly is great because it makes us experiment with positions more. and if they dont work out well its still fun trying!!!!!
love mara
embarrassing sex question
are we freaks for not being able to figure this out???
positions
What about on top?
and good luck! There's lots of fun to be had!
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