introducing "pocket rocket" to hubby...
I bought a small vibrator on a whim one day about a month ago while my husband was gone on a fishing trip. Since the trip, our sex life, for various reasons (he got injured, we've both been tired, houseguests), hasn't exactly been unsatisfying, but it's not as satisfying as it used to be. I tried out the vibrator and WOW! I'm a fan. I've never had o's like THAT before.
I remember a long time ago when he said he'd never played with a vibrator with a woman before and wouldn't mind trying. I've had the thing for close to a month now, and there just hasn't been a good opportunity to introduce it to him. I want to, but I'm (probably unjustifiably) timid about it. I wasn't "experienced" at all sexually when we met - he's taught me everything I know, so to speak. I don't know if I'm afraid he'll have hurt feelings or think I'm needing more than he can give me... I just see it as a fun toy to play around with.
Any ideas of ways to bring it up (pun intended, kinda)?
First off the Pocket Rocket kicks @$$ ! ! ! I have that one too ... lol ... I introduced it by putting it under my pillow when we were going to sleep , and then when we started getting frisky I pulled it out and started using it , then gave it to him to have control of ...
Re: introducing "pocket rocket" to hubby...
I have a warning for you - once you introduce your rocket to your DH, he may become more enamoured with it than you! Now don't get me wrong - I don't mean that he will end up using it for himself! I mean he will become a madman getting you to use it every time! My dh seems more obssessed with it than I was. But hey, just let him find it one day or just come out and tell him why you got it in the first place then get onto business!
Re: introducing "pocket rocket" to hubby...
I bet anything he'll be so turned on by the thought of you with the thing that it won't matter HOW you bring it up! When I first suggested it to DH, I thought he would o on the spot!
Have you thought about "accidentally" leaving it out where he could see it?
Re: introducing "pocket rocket" to hubby...
Now there's some good advice...be deceptive. Cripes...then people wonder why their SO won't talk about issues or feels betrayed or confused. Well, they're not going to talk about it when you set the example that the way to deal with an issue, good or bad, is to hide the truth.