lauriex
The gentle hearted
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(1/26/05 11:40 pm)
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making a spell... er ritual??
hey guys.
l'm writing this because some stuff happened today (sam and l had a fight) and l realized something.
we're in a relationship we may not be strong enough to maintain without help, maingly because of the fact that we're living together at such a young age... l dont want to sound like l'm whining or something, but one of the things we've noticed lately is that we're arguing. A LOT. over stupid things.
and... we want to stop that, l guess you could say. maybe improve our trust in each other, and give ourselves strength.
one of the things l suggested was turning to gaia for help, in the form of a spell or ritual.
which i guess is why l'm here.
while we were talking afterwards (yes, we did make up, adn right now we're okay) l suggested finding a couple rituals or spells for inner strength, or whatever, but sam said he wants to make his own. anyway, that's fine, but it actually made a lot of sense.
l guess the reason l'm doing this is because l need help writing my own. l simply don't know enough to do this safely, or properly, in order to have the healing we need.
l guess this probably sounds like we're on the virge of breaking up or something, but we're not, don't worry about th\at. we're just... really stressed out, and taking it out on each other..
we need help, but sam really doesn't want to go to councelling (l'm not that bad, as far as l can tell. l just... get frustrated or something when he gets angry or over react, and dont seem to have the strength to not get angry in return. l think. did that make sense?)
anyway, if you guys have any advice on ritual-making, please let me know.
l think l'm looking for something that promotes clarity of thought, to allow him (and myself) to see things as they really are, without prejudice at least to some extent (is that even possible?)f and something to promote strength and confidence.
can we do this, or am l hoping for too much in something like this?
anyway, if anyone has suggestions, please let me know? l'd really appreciate it.
l dont want us to break up, but... we need to get through this hurtle, ya know? it's really hard living with someone when you're not allowed to... love them, l suppose.
help?
laurie.
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