Honestly, i think it depends on the personality of poth partners. My, I absoloutely abhore answering to anyone for anything. I like to do my thing and if i think of it ill inform ya later...i never do anything i feel is a big deal. But I have seen couples where one party is the dominant and both seem happy with the situation. If she is ok with having him in the lead dog position then I wouldnt worry. NOW if he is noticably abusive IE she wont buy certain things or wear makeup for fear he will be angry I most certainly WOULD mention it. Dependant female actually does fit a small group of women and this is just something we need to accept though it ranckles us. Personally, I want a partner ship. You dont need my permission i dont need yours but we get together on the big stuff