Akuma Kijin
Defender Beast and Fowl
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(8/31/04 9:24 pm)
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I promised this over in Lauries journal
Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List
This questionnaire should be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them. This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play.
For each item, you need to provide two answers
First write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.
[NO] means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
[![0]](http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/alien.gif) (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").
[1] means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
[2] means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
[3] means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
[4] means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
[5] means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.
Note any additional information which might be important for your Dom to know.
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.
Experience Check mark it, Willingness NO or 0-5
Abrasion ______________________________________________
Age play ______________________________________________
Anal sex ______________________________________________
Anal plugs (small) ______________________________________________
Anal plugs (large) ______________________________________________
Anal plug
(public, under clothes)
Anal Beads
Animal roles ______________________________________________
Arm & leg sleeves
(arm binders)
______________________________________________
Auctioned for charity
______________________________________________
Ben-Wa Balls
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Bathroom use control ______________________________________________
Bestiality ______________________________________________
Beating (soft) ______________________________________________
Beating (hard) ______________________________________________
Blindfolds ______________________________________________
Being serviced (sexual) ______________________________________________
Being bitten ______________________________________________
Breast/chest bondage ______________________________________________
Breath control ______________________________________________
Branding ______________________________________________
Boot worship ______________________________________________
Bondage (light) ______________________________________________
Bondage (heavy) ______________________________________________
Bondage (multi-day) ______________________________________________
Bondage
(public, under clothing)
______________________________________________
Breast whipping ______________________________________________
Cages
(locked inside of)
______________________________________________
Caning ______________________________________________
Cells/Closets
(locked inside of)
______________________________________________
Chastity belts ______________________________________________
Chauffeuring ______________________________________________
Choking ______________________________________________
Clothespins ______________________________________________
Cock worship ______________________________________________
Collars
(worn in private)
______________________________________________
Collars
(worn in public)
______________________________________________
Competitions
(with other Subs)
______________________________________________
Corsets (wearing) ______________________________________________
Cuffs (leather) ______________________________________________
Cuffs (metal) ______________________________________________
Cutting ______________________________________________
Dilation ______________________________________________
Double penetration ______________________________________________
Electricity ______________________________________________
Enemas ______________________________________________
Enforced chastity ______________________________________________
Examinations
(physical)
______________________________________________
Exercise
(forced/required)
______________________________________________
Exhibitionism
(friends)
______________________________________________
Exhibitionism
(strangers)
______________________________________________
Eye contact restrictions
______________________________________________
Face slapping ______________________________________________
Fantasy abandonment ______________________________________________
Fantasy rape ______________________________________________
Fantasy gang-rape ______________________________________________
Fisting (anal) ______________________________________________
Fisting (vaginal) ______________________________________________
Following orders ______________________________________________
Foot worship ______________________________________________
Forced dressing ______________________________________________
Forced homosexuality ______________________________________________
Forced masturbation ______________________________________________
Forced nudity
(private)
______________________________________________
Forced nudity
(around others)
______________________________________________
Forced servitude ______________________________________________
Full head hoods ______________________________________________
Gags (cloth) ______________________________________________
Gags (rubber) ______________________________________________
Gags (tape) ______________________________________________
Gates of Hell (male) ______________________________________________
Genital sex ______________________________________________
Given away
to another Dom (temp)
______________________________________________
Given away
to another Dom (perm)
______________________________________________
Golden showers ______________________________________________
Hairbrush spankings ______________________________________________
Hair pulling ______________________________________________
Hand jobs (giving) ______________________________________________
Hand jobs (receiving) ______________________________________________
Harems
(serving w/other subs)
______________________________________________
Harnessing (leather) ______________________________________________
Harnessing (rope) ______________________________________________
Having food
chosen for you
_____________________________________________
Having clothing
chosen for you
______________________________________________
Head (giving fellatio) ______________________________________________
Head (receiving fellatio)
______________________________________________
High heel worship ______________________________________________
Homage with tongue
(non-sexual)
______________________________________________
Hot waxing ______________________________________________
Housework (doing) ______________________________________________
Human puppy dog
______________________________________________
Humiliation (private) ______________________________________________
Humiliation (public) ______________________________________________
Hypnotism ______________________________________________
Ice cubes ______________________________________________
Infantilism ______________________________________________
Initiation rites ______________________________________________
Intricate (Japanese)
rope bondage
______________________________________________
Interrogations ______________________________________________
Kidnapping ______________________________________________
Kneeling ______________________________________________
Leather clothing ______________________________________________
Leather restraints ______________________________________________
Lectures for
misbehavior
______________________________________________
Licking (non-sexual) ______________________________________________
Manacles & Irons ______________________________________________
Manicures (giving) ______________________________________________
Massage (giving) ______________________________________________
Massage (receiving)
______________________________________________
Medical scenes ______________________________________________
Modeling for photos
_____________________________________________
Mouth bits ______________________________________________
Mummification ______________________________________________
Nipple clamps ______________________________________________
Nipple weights ______________________________________________
Oral/anal play
(rimming)
______________________________________________
Over-the-knee spanking ______________________________________________
Orgasm denial ______________________________________________
Orgasm control ______________________________________________
Outdoor scenes ______________________________________________
Outdoor sex
______________________________________________
Phone sex (serving Dom)
______________________________________________
Phone sex
(serving Dom's Friends)
______________________________________________
Piercing
(temporary, play-pierce)
______________________________________________
Piercing (permanent)
______________________________________________
Prison scenes ______________________________________________
Pony slave ______________________________________________
Public exposure ______________________________________________
Pussy/cock whipping ______________________________________________
Pussy worship ______________________________________________
Riding crops
______________________________________________
Riding the "horse"
(crotch tort.)
______________________________________________
Rituals ______________________________________________
Religious scenes ______________________________________________
Restrictive rules on behavior
______________________________________________
Rubber/latex clothing ______________________________________________
Rope body harness
______________________________________________
Saran wrapping ______________________________________________
Scratching - getting ______________________________________________
Scratching - giving ______________________________________________
Sensory deprivation ______________________________________________
Serving ______________________________________________
Serving as art ______________________________________________
Serving as ashtray ______________________________________________
Serving as furniture ______________________________________________
Serving as a maid ______________________________________________
Serving as waitress/waiter
______________________________________________
Serving orally (sexual)
______________________________________________
Serving other doms
(supervised)
______________________________________________
Serving other doms
(unsupervised)
______________________________________________
Sexual deprivation
(short term)
______________________________________________
Sexual deprivation
(long term)
______________________________________________
Shaving (body hair)
______________________________________________
Shaving (head hair) ______________________________________________
Sleep deprivation ______________________________________________
Sleep sacks ______________________________________________
Slutty clothing
(privately)
______________________________________________
Slutty clothing
(public)
______________________________________________
Spanking ______________________________________________
Spandex clothing ______________________________________________
Speech restrictions
(when, what)
______________________________________________
Speculums (Anal) ______________________________________________
Speculums (vaginal) ______________________________________________
Spreader bars ______________________________________________
Standing in corner ______________________________________________
Stocks ______________________________________________
Straight jackets ______________________________________________
Strap-on-dildos
(sucking on)
______________________________________________
Strap-on-dildos
(penetrated by)
______________________________________________
Strap-on-dildos
(wearing)
______________________________________________
Strapping
(full body beating)
______________________________________________
Suspension (upright)
______________________________________________
Suspension (inverted)
______________________________________________
Suspension (horizontal)
______________________________________________
Supplying new partners
for Dom
______________________________________________
Swallowing semen
______________________________________________
Swallowing urine ______________________________________________
Swapping
(with one other couple)
______________________________________________
Swinging
(multiple couples)
______________________________________________
Tattooing ______________________________________________
Teasing ______________________________________________
Tickling ______________________________________________
Triple penetration ______________________________________________
Uniforms ______________________________________________
Including others ______________________________________________
Vaginal dildo ______________________________________________
Verbal humiliation ______________________________________________
Vibrator on genitals ______________________________________________
Voyeurism
(watching others)
______________________________________________
Voyeurism
(your Dom w/others)
______________________________________________
Video (watching others)
______________________________________________
Video (taping you)
______________________________________________
Water torture
______________________________________________
Wearing symbolic
jewelry
______________________________________________
Whipping ______________________________________________
Wooden paddles ______________________________________________
Wrestling ______________________________________________
~Sam
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